A 30-minute workshop for parents
You love your kids. You're just tired of being their cleanup crew.
Chore charts, reminders, and reward jars failed because they aren't systems. This 30-minute workshop gives you a system that works because it's built on the same behavioural science that makes people open their favourite app each day.
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DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?
The nightly ritual nobody signed up for
The day is done but the house says otherwise. Dishes in the sink, shoes in the hallway, toys on every surface. So you start cleaning. Again.
You've asked your kids to help. They do a half-job, miss everything obvious, or just... don't. So you redo it yourself because it's faster.
Sticker charts lasted a week. Chore wheels got ignored. Yelling worked once but now everyone's upset and the kitchen is still a mess.
By 8pm you're not resting — you're folding, wiping, picking up. Your evenings don't belong to you.
You love your kids. You just quietly resent that you're the only one who seems to see the mess.
Here's what's actually going on
Your kids aren't lazy. They're not ungrateful. They're untrained.
Most parents try to get their kids to clean by asking, reminding, or hoping they'll figure it out. When none of that works, it feels personal — like your kids don't care, or like you're failing at something other parents have figured out.
The truth is simpler. Kids don't clean because no one has given them a clear system — what "done" actually looks like, when it needs to happen, and what follows when they deliver. They don't need more motivation. They need structure.
That's what this 30 minute workshop gives you.
Kids That Clean Up is about more than getting your free time back.
There's an 85-year study from Harvard — officially called the Harvard Grant Study — that tracked hundreds of people from childhood into old age.
One of the clearest findings? Kids who were given age-appropriate chores developed stronger relationships, better work ethic, and higher life satisfaction as adults.
According to the research, the best predictor of success in their mid-20s was whether they participated in household tasks.
This isn't just about a tidy house. It's about giving your kids a genuine head start.
But how does this system actually work?
It's built on behavioural science — the same principles I've studied and applied over 19 years in my various roles working in tech and online.
These are the techniques that were designed to make you open your favourite app without thinking. The nudges that keep you scrolling, tapping, coming back.
We've taken those same principles and modified them for something that actually matters — getting your kids to clean up, willingly, without bribes or battles.
You don't need to try harder. You need a system that works every time — for every chore, at every age.
The Set 4 Framework
Four steps. One repeatable structure you'll use for every task, in every room, with every child. Simple enough to learn in 20 minutes. Powerful enough to change how your household runs.
01
Set the Standard
Define what "done" actually looks like — clearly enough that your child can check their own work without asking you.
02
Set the Time
Establish when it happens and how long it takes. No more "I'll do it later." Routines replace arguments.
03
Set the Review
Check the work against the standard — without redoing it yourself. Teach them to self-correct, not wait for you to fix it.
04
Set the Reward
Tie completion to outcomes that matter to your child. Not bribes — real responsibility linked to real freedom.
What you get
Everything you need to start tonight
No fluff. No 12-week curriculum. This is a 30 minute workshop designed for parents who are tired of doing all the housework themselves and need something that works immediately to get their children involved with keeping the house clean and organised. Here's what's included:
20-Minute Video Workshop
The complete Set 4 Framework, walked through step by step. How to set standards your kids can actually hit, build routines that stick, review work without redoing it, and tie responsibility to real outcomes. Watch it once, use it forever.
Your Family Blueprint
Open this the moment the video ends. It walks you through applying the framework to your specific kids — their ages, your household, your schedule. You'll have a written plan before you stand up from the couch.
Age-Appropriate Task List
Exactly which chores your kids can handle — broken down by age group. No guesswork about whether your 5-year-old can wipe a counter or your 12-year-old can handle laundry. The answer is yes, and this shows you how.
Example Calendar for Each Age Group
See what a realistic weekly chore schedule looks like for younger kids, middle-age kids, and older kids. Not aspirational — practical. Built around real family mornings and evenings, not fantasy routines.
it works at every age
Your kids can do more than you think
The Set 4 Framework adapts to any age. Here's a glimpse of what's realistic when kids are properly trained — not just asked.
Ages 3-6
Building Habits
Put toys back in bins after playing
Wipe down the table after meals
Put dirty clothes in the hamper
Help sort laundry by colour
Make their bed (simplified standard)
Put shoes on the rack
Ages 7-11
Building independence
Load and unload the dishwasher
Fold and put away their laundry
Vacuum or sweep common areas
Clean bathroom surfaces
Take out rubbish and recycling
Prepare simple snacks and clean up
Ages 12-16
Building ownership
Do their own laundry start to finish
Deep-clean the bathroom weekly
Sort, fold, and put away family laundry
Manage their own room completely
Mow the lawn or maintain outdoor areas
Full kitchen deep-clean including stove top
How fast this works
Less time than it takes them to "find" their shoes.
This isn't a course you'll never finish. It's a system you can master in 30 minutes.
1
20 Minutes
Watch The Workshop
Learn the Set 4 Framework and see exactly how to apply it to any task, at any age.
2
10 Minutes
Complete the worksheet
Map the framework to your kids, your home, and your schedule. Walk away with a written plan.
3
That Evening
Have the conversation
Sit down with your kids and set the new standard. No fight. No lecture. Just clarity.
For real parents
From Real Parents
Will
Husband & Father
Founder, Kids That Clean Up
While working in Tech I discovered Dr. BJ Fogg, a Stanford professor who'd spent decades studying how behavior actually works. His framework explained everything: why people got hooked on apps, why some products worked and others failed, why tiny changes could shift millions of people's behavior.
I became obsessed. As someone on the customer growth side of the business I used his principles to help me succeed wherever I could in my job. I would often customise his framework for my position from Growth team manager to affiliates manager. And each time behavior design worked.
Then I became a parent.
And I realized: the same principles that get people addicted to their phones could be used to raise capable, responsible kids.
Not to manipulate them. To train them. To build systems that work with how behavior actually forms, instead of fighting against it.
That's what the Set 4 Framework is. It's behavior design for families. The same thinking that powers billion-user apps—repurposed to help your kids clean without constant reminders.
Same science. Different outcome.
Stop cleaning up after them. Start training them.
Less than the cost of a house cleaner who comes once. Except this works every day — because your kids are doing it.
The Kids That Clean Up Workshop
20-minute video workshop — the complete Set 4 Framework
Guided age-appropriate worksheet — your plan before you stand up
Age-appropriate task list — what your kids can realistically handle
Example calendar for each age group — plug it into your week
Lifetime access — rewatch anytime, for any new task or new kid
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Common Questions
Before you decide
The Set 4 Framework works for kids ages 3 to 16. The workshop covers how to adapt expectations and standards for younger kids, middle-age kids, and teenagers. The included task list and example calendars are broken down by age group so you know exactly what's realistic.
Chore charts tell kids what to do. They don't teach kids how to do it, when it's done properly, or what's actually at stake. That's why they work for a few days and then get ignored. The Set 4 Framework builds the whole system — standards, timing, accountability, and follow-through — so the chart becomes unnecessary.
Resistance is usually a sign that the previous approach — reminding, asking, hoping — wasn't clear enough. The framework replaces vague expectations with specific standards and real follow-through. Most pushback fades within the first week because kids actually know what's expected and what happens when they deliver.
Most families see a noticeable shift within the first 48 hours. Not perfection — but a clear change in how kids respond when expectations are specific and consistent. By the end of the first week, the new routine starts to feel normal. By week two, you'll wonder why you waited.
Absolutely. The framework is designed to work with one parent running it. You don't need anyone else on board. In fact, single parents often see faster results because there's one clear authority and one consistent standard.
You get lifetime access. Buy it now, watch it when the kids are in bed — tonight, tomorrow night, this weekend. The workshop is 20 minutes and the worksheet takes 10. You can be done in a single sitting during one evening.
It's 8pm tomorrow.
What does your evening look like?
Same routine — or a different one. The system takes 30 minutes to learn and a lifetime to benefit from.
